Dear Sierra,
Wow! It’s been a long time since I’ve written to you! Would you believe that you are now 39.5 months old! Time sure flies! You are now a very dynamic little girl. The things you do and say astound Daddy and I each and every day. You know the letters of the alphabet, can even write some of them: J,A, N, I (you can almost spell my name!), you know the months of the year, and many many other things.
Physically you’ve undergone a lot of changes too. You can:
Ride a bike (with training wheels)
Swing on a swing all by yourself
Swim by yourself with water wings
Put on your own socks, shoes, pants and jacket
Use the toilet independently (pull your pants down, wipe, flush, pull pants up, wash hands)
Stay dry through the night
Sleep THROUGH THE NIGHT!
Fall asleep on your own
Communicate your wants and needs without having a complete emotional breakdown leaving daddy and I guessing as to the cause.
Come down stairs in the morning and play independently until Mommy or Daddy wakes up.
You finally have an appetite and eat food! (If you read through my earlier letters you will find that I was always stressed about your lack of interest in food).
In short you’ve transitioned from a baby to a little girl!
You have become so very independent. Unfortunately sometimes I expect you to be too independent and this has left you feeling lonely while I tend to Brookie and her needs. The other day you said to me: Mommy I don’t like you anymore because you’re always playing with Brookie. It absolutely broke my heart because I try so hard to include both you and Brooke in all that I do. Daddy’s work schedule leaves me as the sole caregiver to you two girls a lot of the time, trying to balance both of your diverse needs. It made me realize that I need to try harder to give you one on one time, and also to include you into the games Brooke and I play. It’s been far too easy for me to turn the TV on, as I know you will zone out and be entertained while watching it. Next week I’ve taken the Monday off of work to come along on your Pre-school class trip. We’ll be taking a bus ride to a farm to pick apples. I can’t wait because it’ll be so special to me to spend that time with you and only you. I don’t get that opportunity too much.
What else, what else? OH! You’ve begun taking gymnastics class by yourself – you love it! You are so confident in yourself, and not the least bit shy. When I dropped you off for your first class you ran off happily to join your class. You were not the least bit afraid. I was so proud of you, yet also hurt because you don’t need me the way you once did. You are also taking swimming lessons by yourself – you are now too old for the parent & tot classes and will now be working through your swimming badges starting with Preschool A. This has made Daddy sad as he loved that bonding time with you while swimming and at gymnastics. Before we know it you’ll be diving into the deep end of our pool and screaming “Mommy! Watch this!”. Much as I’ve longed for you to gain that independence, another part of me is feeling a sense of loss. You used to need me so much! Brooke still needs me now, but it reminds me that she won’t always need me too.
This next month we don’t have that much planned. We’ll be going to the Milton Fall Fair on Sunday, your class trip on Monday, Thanks Giving is approaching and so is Halloween (you’ll be able to show your little sister how to Trick Or Treat).
Sierra, Daddy and I are enjoying watching you grow up so very much. We absolutely love the person you are becoming and are so proud of you!
Love,
Mommy
XXXOOO
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