In The Blink of an Eye

Today I want you to hug your family members extra, extra tight. Tell them you love them and that they’re special – savour everything that makes them special, because they can be gone in the blink of an eye.

Things happen fast – I recently read the book “Left Neglected” about a busy, working mom of 3 who suffers a bad head injury from a car accident on her way to work. The head injury leaves her unable to work and unable to care for her three children. It’s a really good book and really makes you realise how fast your life can change, and to re-think the priorities in your life (and if you’re a cell phone user it’ll definitely make you think twice about touching your phone while driving).

This past weekend we learned first hand how precious life is, and how fast your life can change.

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On Saturday night while the rest of us were all sleeping, my hubby lost consciousness and fell. When he fell he hit his head on something (we’re assuming it was the hard concrete basement floor). He remembers waking up on the floor in front of the TV, but not sure how he got there. He then went to bed. At 11:30 in the morning I made him get up (I was peeved because his staying up late watching TV made me miss my run). When he got up he had slurred speech, was seeing double, was dizzy, and couldn’t walk a straight line. He told me what happened so I took him to the hospital where he spent the day undergoing a battery of tests. They’ve been able to determine that he did not have a stroke or a seizure, and that he does not have a brain tumour.

Since then his head injury has lingered and he has been unable to drive, work or concentrate. It’s been 4 days now and he’s just starting to see better, talk better, remember more and his wit is coming back. I’ve never been so happy to have him poke fun of me and my quirks. He’s still undergoing tests to find the cause so that they can perhaps treat it to prevent this from happening again. It’s times like this that I’m thankful for our healthcare system.

My husband would be embarrassed that I told you all this – but I want you to consider how precious your loved ones are – to give them hugs, love them everyday and to cherish all that makes them unique. Anything can happen in the blink of an eye.

15 thoughts on “In The Blink of an Eye

    1. Thanks :) He’s getting better little by little every day. I’m even HAPPY that he’s able to watch TV tonight w/o it bringing on a killer headache.

  1. wow. sometimes we have to be reminded how much we mean to each other. i’m glad he’s getting better and hope they figure out what the heck happened!!

  2. ((HUGS)) Life really can change in an instant. I read that book recently and it made me look at things differently. Plus a number of my friends have lost their DH’s recently. Enjoy every moment. So glad your hubby is coming back to you.

  3. You’re so right. We’ve had a bunch of things happen in the past year or so that reinforced my need to be present, enjoy every moment of life and, yes, hug my family members extra tight.

    Sorry about your husband — hope he’s back and 100% really soon!!!

  4. Oh Janice! How stressful for you all. The ‘not knowing’ is the most difficult part of a health scare.
    Will be thinking of you and yours and hoping for a quick resolution.

  5. Wow. How stressful is that? Here’s hoping he’s back to his hockey watching hiding self soon. And, thanks for the reminder….

    1. I tried to comment on your blog but couldn’t bc I apparently have a account but can’t remember my password. I’m sorry!

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