Iâ€™ve been serving at a local sports bar for the past 6 months. Originally I took the job â€˜cause Cosmo Boy and I needed some extra cash to pay off some debts. Now, thanks to some debt consolidation â€“ we no longer need the money I earn from the second job. Normally this wouldnâ€™t pose a dilemma â€“ I would just quit the job. BUT I really like this job. I generally like my co-workers, I have fun there, and it isnâ€™t too demanding â€“ especially since I only work two 7 hour shifts a week there. Itâ€™s almost like a hobby to me. I would feel incredibly guilty for quitting the job because I told the owner I was looking for a part time job I could stay at for the next 3 yearsâ€¦ Unfortunately, Cosmo Boyâ€™s family lives a 5 hour drive away, and we havenâ€™t been able to go up and see them since I started working this job. It isnâ€™t really fair to Cosmo Boy if I keep the job, as he would really like to visit his family, and by working a second job it takes away from our â€œtogetherâ€ time. Am I being selfish for wanting to keep the job? I donâ€™t really know what to do.